VIRGO

Typical Virgo personality traits

Modest (read: imposter syndrome)

You will rarely find a Virgo boasting, bragging or showboating - it’s just not their style. Even world-beating achievements are presented with a humble shrug and a self-depreciating comment. Left unchecked, this modesty can turn into a self-confidence dip, and their critical inner judge can take over, highlighting their flaws and negatives at max volume, making them think they’re not good enough and don’t deserve their spot. Be kind to your Virgo friends (even if they’re not always kind to you). They can really beat themselves up privately.

Hard workers (read: control freak)

Virgos are born conscientious. They evolve into diligent perfectionists who can’t bear to see anything delivered in a shoddy way and will happily take on extra to avoid that happening. There’s a fine line here, though, between working hard in the team and becoming a monstrous control freak who tries to do everyone else’s job for them. Yup, tricky.

Helpful (read: martyr)

Virgos seriously LOVE helping other people out, proving their worth, being leaned on, feeling valued. However, they do (quietly, mind you) expect gratitude, recognition and maybe a lil’ reward. They won’t ever state this overtly (too crass), they’ll just ramp up the favours/tasks completed in the hope you WILL HAVE TO acknowledge it. This can become a vicious circle because, eventually, others take this level of servitude for granted and this then really annoys Virgos. Internally, the inner judge is unleashed, harping on about other people’s lack of manners/gratitude/morals etc… Just say ‘thank you’ when your Virgo pal does you a solid. PLEASE.

Modest (read: imposter syndrome)

You will rarely find a Virgo boasting, bragging or showboating - it’s just not their style. Even world-beating achievements are presented with a humble shrug and a self-depreciating comment. Left unchecked, this modesty can turn into a self-confidence dip, and their critical inner judge can take over, highlighting their flaws and negatives at max volume, making them think they’re not good enough and don’t deserve their spot. Be kind to your Virgo friends (even if they’re not always kind to you). They can really beat themselves up privately.

Attractive Virgo traits

Virgos are all perfectionists, so they always look, act and behave perfectly, making them easy company. Underneath that glacial exterior, however, beats a very passionate heart so they can be full of surprises as you get to know them. They enjoy pleasing and helping others, so they’re generally good people to have in your life. Virgos are attractive because:

    Of their natural elegance and poise. They emit serenity and calm.
    They are funny and sharp, and often have a very dry wit.
    They notice the ~small stuff~ and pay attention to the detail, they remember everything you ever said to them.